10 Human Mental illness

1. Blame others
Disease that P and K, which is primitive and infantile.

Primitive. Blaming others is a primitive mindset. In the interior of Africa, if someone is sick, who thought out is: "Who is that nyantet ya?" Always the "who", not "what" the cause. The field of modern medicine is always to find out "what" is not "who". So if we think of blaming others, it's the same with a primitive attitude. Use koteka aja deh, do not have to wear a tie and jacket.

Childish. Why? The kids always never want to be blamed. If there is plates that fall, "tuh brother wrong," or, "Ma'am tuh wrong". You wrote that wear bib overalls to be so. If we are mature, intelligent and always will be looking for something to happen.

2. Blame themselves
Blamed himself that he was not able to. This is in contrast to admit mistakes. You've been there? If you say never, you're lying. "Ah, he does get, he's an expert, he has a job, he's talented, and so on, Lha, I was what?, Wow, I can not deh. She S3, LHA, my junior high school, can not deh wah. He's got a lot of time I was busy, certainly can not deh ". These diseases like cancer, a big plus, big in the mental self so that it can achieve "improper guilty feeling".

So even though the wrong partners, subordinates, superiors, or even, dare say, "Why I have to do wrong, can not afford, and so on". This disease slowly kill us. Feel inferior, we do not have the ability. We often compare the success of others with our shortcomings, so the success of others is considered fair because they have something more that we do not have.

3. Do not have a goal or goals
We are stuck with busy work, but its direction is unclear. Should we always have a job with milestone targets. Create long-term targets and short-term in writing. Illustrations like this: There is a good dog ran snob. "What the heck can not I pursue, I lose the same aja horse". Then there is a rabbit jumping, kiclik, kiclik, kiclik. His friend said, "Well there tuh rabbits, catch aja". He chased the rabbit, wesss ...., rabbit run faster, the dog insists on chasing and running mascara rabbit-ears (to not hear / care about anything), and finally not be chased away, the rabbit into the fence. The dog returned to his friend and diketawain. "Ah, you, he ran great, just can not catch a rabbit wrote. He said most taut lu". "Lha its goal to keep him still alive, survive, LHA cave hell wrote goalnya for fun". If the "GOAL" we are just for "FUN", wrote the content, so the results are only just out of breath.

4. Have a "goal", but inconsequential to achieve it
Usually experienced by people who are not "teachable". One of its goal, our focus is also wrong, way too wrong, too wrong direction. Illustrations like this: there are young men obsessed with gold, because the influence of the tradition that deify gold. This young man went to the mall and fill the bag with gold and arbitrarily ngeloyor go. Of course the police and were arrested. He replied, "Basically I want the gold, I do not want to look left-right".

5. Take a shortcut (shortcut)
Success is never passed to the shortcut. Shortcuts do not take people to real success, because it does not follow the process. If we avoid the process, do not mature, even if it dikarbit mature. So, there is no shortcut tuh. Indonesian badminton players get up at 5 am, running around Senayan, do the smash 1000 times. That's not a shortcut. Not any one inattentive, careless every day wear gloves, keep all of a sudden a champion badminton. Nothing! If you are told to put the money of 1 million, in 3 weeks to 3 million, did not make sense that? No way!. Because it is against nature.

6. Taking way too long, too relaxed
This analogy: The plane can fly for take-off, must have a minimum speed. Boeing 737 aircraft, to be able to take-off, requires a minimum speed of 300 km / h. If he was just a speed of 50 km / h, it just splurging avtur ngabis-aja, aja muter-muter. LHA, if the course you just use a straight runwaynya speed of 50 km / h, it can not take-off, even nyungsep yes. Right?

7. Ignore the small things
He wants the big ones, are excited, but not small ones dikerjain. He forgot that the structure of a large building, there must be a small component. I wish the great wrote. Ignore the small things should not aja, let alone ignore the little people.

8. Give up too soon
Do not stop working on 3-month probationary period. Not start with the one that makes people fail, but stopped in the wrong place. Started with the wrong can be fixed, but stopped in the wrong place at all bothered.

9. The shadows of the past
Wow, very poetic, I love with this one. For what? We are always full of memory right? What we do, enter our memory, at least for our consideration for our next step. Moreover, if we ever fail, do not dare to try again. It can always return to the number of disease-3. Failure as a result of the shadows of the past are not resolved properly. That's a negative shadow. Our memory is sometimes very limited us to move forward. We sometimes forget that life is to move on. "Time" was developed right?. There is no way that a clock is upside down? There's nothing right? Everything forward, live it forward. Aja ran forward, even if it should fall, would forward really. People who are successful, must have failed. That's a negative memory that hinders success.

10. Hypnotize yourself with apparent success
So-called Pseudo Success Syndrome. We are hypnotized by it. If we've succeeded with little success, and then stop, do not go anywhere else. Been satisfied with such small success. Napoleon once said, "When the most dangerous comes along with a great victory". That's when the most dangerous, because people are careless, drunken victory. Do not get stuck with a goal-the goal is small, because we will shoot a large target, a distant goal. Do not be complacent, ntar so arrogant, arrogant hold.

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20 How to Understand the Brain Guys Contents

The man is a creature of the most difficult to understand? Well, it could be true. But not to worry anymore guess they thought, because 20 it is stated that the real desire is stored behind the firm's face.

When the first date ...
He said: "I'll call deh ..."

Meaning: He's not sure will contact you again. And chances are, this is the last meeting.

If she refuses your love ...
He said: "I do not feel like to be bound by anyone ..."

Meaning: He does not like you. And do not think want to date you. It could be because you are not on the list of criteria. However, if you need a partner for romance, he would be there for you.

If she has a boyfriend ...
He said: "If I was single, I would choose you to be my boyfriend ..."

Meaning: Well, he loved his girlfriend. But he would not mind to flirt with you.

COMMITMENT PROBLEM
If he's talking about freedom ...
He said: "I'm a love of freedom and democracy ...

Meaning: He does not like over-regulated and restricted. She prefers a relationship based on trust.

If you touched on marriage
He said: "We were at another time bicarain yes"

Meaning: He's not ready and confident to step on the marriage bond. And he wanted to wait until he feels confident.

RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
If he's talking about your ex ...
He said: "I do not mind why you still friends with him"

Meaning: Actually he did not want to hook up with your ex, because after all there's the fear of losing his heart.

When you find the name of another woman on his mobile
He said: "Oh yes, just friends really"

Meaning: Well, he never imagined that beautiful friends naked. But he never seriously. And his heart was still fixed on you.

If there is a beautiful woman passes in front
He said: "I never really looked at another woman"

Meaning: It is nonsense if not interested in beautiful women. Of course he had seen and marveled at the beautiful women who pass before him, but it was limited to admire (maybe)

If you discuss the child's
He said: "Ah it's still a long time, do not be talking about it first deh"

Meaning: He's still not thinking about children. In fact, he may still want to own and freely, without threat of a great responsibility for the presence of children.

Talk about old relationships
He said: "No need to bring up the past is over"

Meaning: Even if he was honest and told him all his past experience, you will not be accepted gladly. And he does not like to listen to your whining, angry, or even leave because of a past that is over.

When he work especial your phone
He said: "Ah baseball, cuman a look aja kok"

Meaning: He was curious and hoping not to find things that will make him upset.

When you cook a favorite menu
He said: "Quite why beib, nice ..."

Meaning: You have to learn to cook again.

When he was caught lying
He said: "I'm not in the mood to discuss it"

Meaning: He's afraid if you are angry, and he did not want to appear weak, wrong, and lost in front of you.

PERFORMANCE PROBLEMS
If she were a mirror ...
He said: "Today I look handsome."

Meaning: You should feel lucky to have a boyfriend like him. And he did not give you a reason to fall in love with another man.

If all of a sudden he's too concerned belly ...
He said: "I think tomorrow I'll ngegym"

Meaning: He was not feeling confident with her body. And he is afraid you will judge it too fat for you. Hmm .. yes, just like you.

If he often refused when asked to shopping at the mall
He said: "I do not like too long at the mall, and I do not feel comfortable"

Meaning: He did not want to look like a woman, and she did not want to be perceived as a gentle man who loves shopping.

SEXUAL PROBLEMS
Speaking of the sex industry
He said: "I swear, I never 'snack' in a place like that"

Meaning: Even if he never went with her friends just to isengpun, he will never tell you.

About Big Boobs
He said: "I do not really look like big boobs"

Meaning: Yes, he likes to see big boobs. But he is more appreciative of what you have.

About masturbation
He said: "I do not really beib, I've never seen a porn movie and masturbate again ..."

Meaning: Masturbation is a very natural thing. Nothing wrong with occasionally when he does provide self-service to yourself.

About blue movies
He said: "Ah, not really. I've never watched such things again"

Meaning: He did not want to upset even when he was forced to watch because there are a few friends there. And indeed it is a little ritual of men

No need to bother anymore to play a guessing game right?

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10 Sentences for Women Who Want Heard from Mate

For men, a woman full of puzzles. Many men who feel their grasp, but precisely the opposite. Make glad the hearts of women are extremely difficult, but there are 10 things the exception.

Launched by TimesofIndia, women will never get tired of hearing this phrase 10. What are they?

1. 'You're Beautiful'
The relative nature of beauty, and not everyone was awarded a perfect beauty. However, when these words come out of his beloved spouse, then it becomes meaningful.

2. 'You're the First In My Life'
It is not clear? Yes, it sounds so, but menururt psychologist Archana Nanda, this word has many meanings that make a woman beautiful special. 'First' here could mean the first that made him perfect, so happy, and many other feelings difficult to express but to increase her confidence.

3. 'Gratitude Have You'
Gratitude is a feeling that people in general are rarely disclosed. When it is spoken to his partner, it was so mean and increase the sense of mutual affection and positive feelings.

4. 'You Will Be A Good Mother'
Women in general have a motherly spirit and dreamed of having a baby with someone he loves. When the word is spoken, she would have imagined his future as a mother, and make him happy. It also shows that you have the qualities needed to become a good wife for him.

5. 'Living a Life With Me Would You?'
Living together is a sensitive thing, especially if he has not felt comfortable with her partner. But deep down, she longed for someone who could at any time with him in all circumstances. It also shows that the man had wanted a more serious relationship with you.

6. 'How you think?
Asked his opinion of something is a sign that he was not the kind of guy who likes to control and communicate in one direction. For him, do you have an important role in aspects of life. You not only judged by the sheer physical beauty but also intelligence.

7. 'You're my best friend'
Many men with a clear indication that he was just fascinated by the beauty outside. He does not care who he faced, and restricting women with a clear gender attitudes. Another case when he said this, it means so much. Not only the more he admired the beauty, but also you are so personally close to him like a best friend he ever had.

8. 'You Could Read My mind'
Women will feel happy if he knew he could understand the character of their partner and what he wants. Starting from the food menu to choose a favorite hobby thing. There is a feeling of connectedness and owned as a man saying this to women.

9. 'I love you'
Three universal word that when spoken at the right moment, then he would become so valuable. If you are in a relationship, mengucpkan this as often as any would make the couple happy. No one will be bored to hear when you're in love with each other or menyintai what it is.

10. 'I Always Make You There'
This means the promise and he should be kept. Despite the fact that because this activity is often forgotten, but there is a sense of security arising out of this sentence.

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Great Brain, Organ Most Confusing

1. Dreamland
If we ask the same question to 10 people, what causes us to dream? Maybe you'll get 10 answers that are not the same. This is because no one has solved the mystery of scientists today. The first theory that information through nerve impulses between the brain of molecules of the exercise of a big brain for a dream place. Another theory is the dream of the task and did not get the feeling that note again, in such a process could help us strengthen the memory and mind. Generally, scientists agree with the notion that "dreams can occur during sleep for a while".

2. Sleep
In all of human life to spend at least ¼ time to sleep. Sleep is vital for the survival of creatures feeding, sleeping in a prolonged period can cause a lack of self sadarkann, hallucinations, and eventually cause death.

Two conditions during the last sleep period of a full bed (activity slowed eyeball), such as brain metabolic activity slows, and nap time (when such can dream), such as brain activity is very dynamic. According to the scientists that sleep in the fully able to make our bodies a rest, maintaining stamina, like a sleeping beast. Sleeping in the moment can help to establish something in mind, however, this notion has not been proven.

3. Hallucinations
Estimated that approximately 80% of people who have experienced feelings of amputees suffer, stress, the desire, warmth and other feelings. People who experience such phenomena, always felt the cut limbs still exist. An explanation of the opinion, the nerve is cut to form a new relationship with the spinal cord, where the limbs are not as though still present, continue to send signals to the big brain. Alternatively, the big brain is a "wire" transmission, it controls the body that treats disability as a perfect body without disabilities, this means a big brain retain control when the limbs are still intact and perfect.


4. Laugh
Laughter is one of the most difficult human behaviors to understand. When we laugh, there are three parts of our brains to be dynamic ie: the power of the mind, it makes you get the joke (laughs); the movement push your muscles to move; the emotions (feelings) make us gave him a smile. Pioneering researcher John Morryer find humor, laughter is a very interesting reaction to the 24 stories that violate the customs. And understanding others regard laughter as a channel to transmit information "interesting (funny)" to others. Thus seems clear: laughter makes us feel better.

5. Priori (innate) and after birth
Are your thoughts and we properties are controlled by genes or environment-related growth after birth, this problem has always been debated. Fortunately, scientists are working to try to collect a large amount of convincing evidence, to answer the question above.

Lack of ability to examine individual genes, indicates that we have absolutely no control over a large number of human characteristics. However, some studies found that in many cases, the pressures facing the same generation or education received, will cause deep impact on how people are, and what we will do.

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4 Nature of the Type of Boss

Unless you are really rich kid who was starting his own companies get direct employment, in some point in your life, you surely will have a named boss. Well, the boss itself there are various types. Here are the types of bosses:

The charismatic boss, Fun, and Smart

This is the perfect type of boss who dream of all workers. Boss of this type are usually friendly, had a clear vision, can take joke, when I'm serious he's really serious, and subordinates respect him. The boss of this type are usually loved by his subordinates and the subordinates can be very loyal to him. If doi birthday, usually subordinate to the heart will give voluntary gifts / cake / surprise.

It sucks, but smart bosses

This seems to be the most boss types exist. People are very annoying, many wants, like a temper tantrum, but it must be admitted he is very smart and had a vision. Bosses are usually respected and feared by his subordinates and the subordinates usually do not want to deal directly as the boss of this. Tense atmosphere of the office will direct him in every room. Usually the person does not cool.

But Less Exciting boss Smart

The boss is usually a lot of types like joke, like joke, can join with a subordinate, favored by many people, but when dealing with the work normally and he was not good. His vision is not clear, do not know many things, like dikibulin subordinates, just kasian deh. Usually such a subordinate of the boss is divided in two: there is sympathy, but there is also a mean-spirited even to ngebego-begoin the boss.

Annoying bosses and not Smart

This type of boss is the least desirable of all people. This type of boss usually like to get angry to affairs that he did not know the solution. In addition, he also likes to get angry for a random problem and anger-anger could spread to other hal2, evidence of non-profesionalitasannya. Bosses are usually desperate to be recognized all of his boss and he is often implicitly or explicitly told his subordinates if he is the boss and the subordinates must respect it. These are the bosses of the most frequently tried to toppled by his subordinates.

Yes, that's about. Including what type of boss are you?

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Fun to Have Friends Like the Famous Artist

Have a friend that is fun. We can play together, vent, happy together, cry together. Anyway, nothing can be shared deh. But actually, even better if your friend is a famous person! You know why so? Because:

You can get Priority Everywhere
So the story you again the same way your friend is well known. Willing to queue up so whatever. However, not all of a sudden you have to queue up. Suddenly you get a good seat. Suddenly everything is so much faster! What is this?! Oh, all because of your famous friends! Well, that's one friend who had a well-known advantages. Priorities that you get amazing you know. This will make people look at you with envious view, but ah, to hell with them. The important cepet.

You can get Complimentary
You no longer eat at an expensive restaurant each friend you are famous. Suddenly the waiter delivered a food that does you a message. "Why, we do not this message!" you said. "It's complimentary, mas ..." said the waiter. "Oh ..." you said a little embarrassed and immediately blurted complimentary eat it. And when you are willing to pay, you suddenly realize that your bill is discounted 50%. Complimentary he said. All because of your famous friends. Though if you think about it, friend of the famous rich enough to pay for food you know. Why did he even get complimentary? Why do not you?

So People Better
So you are well-known friend ngajakin you to a place. Previously you've been there and your first experience less enjoyable. You tell your friend of the famous, "Do not go there ah! The people jutek". But your friend is determined to remain there. Once there, you're ready to deal with people who kemarennya jutekin you. But, oh! What's this?! Why is everyone so good! Why all the many smiles! In the end, the famous friend told you, "Ah, well why people ..."
This world is not fair. There are some things that really be better if you are famous or carried along with your famous friends. Thanks anyway already wrote. So look for the famous friend.


Friends with famous people famous, too, then you ... hahaa

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Secret Tips To Become Lucky People

In the preceding discussion I've discussed Failure of Playboy, but today I will discuss about Tips to be a lucky person. Maybe one of you want in life but luck only comes once.

Here's a little article about the luck in life, read through it out:

We all know the good thing in a comic character Donald Duck. Contrary to Donald who is always unlucky. Fortunately he was told gain continues. There's just luck that always went duck leader whose real name is Gladstone. Lucky's how good life. Lazy, never worked, but it is always more profitable than Donald. If Lucky and Donald walked together, who suddenly finds a coin on the street it must be the lucky. If you also want to be lucky as the lucky, do not worry, it was fortunate that there is knowledge.

Professor Richard Wiseman of the University of Hertfordshire UK, tried to examine the things that distinguish those with the unfortunate luck. Wiseman recruited a group of people who feel life always wins, and another group whose lives are always unlucky. It sounded like a mess, how could luck be investigated. But it was indeed a lucky person to act differently with those pesky.

For example, in one study it The Luck Project, Wiseman gave the task to calculate how many pictures in the newspaper that was distributed to two groups. The people of the unlucky group took an average of two minutes to complete this task. While those of the lucky group only takes a few seconds only! How come you know? Yes, because earlier on the 2nd page, Wiseman has not put a small text reads "Stop counting now! There are 43 pictures in the paper ". Kelompol unlucky missed this article when the busy calculating the image. In fact, more fun again, in the middle of the paper, Wiseman put another message which read: "Stop counting now and tell the investigator you find it, and win $ 250!". Again, the unlucky miss the message! It is really unfortunate.

In short, from the research that claims to be "scientific" is, Wiseman found four factors that distinguish those who are lucky from the unlucky:

1. Attitude to the opportunities

Lucky people did in fact more open to opportunities. They are more sensitive to the existence of opportunities, good at creating opportunities, and act when opportunity comes. How is this possible? Apparently the people who are lucky to have a more relaxed attitude and open to new experiences. They are more open to interaction with the new people, and create new social networks. People who are unlucky more tense, so closed to new possibilities.

For example, when Barnett Helzberg jewelry store owner in New York was about to sell the pearl shop, accidentally while walking in front of the Plaza Hotel, he heard a woman call a guy next to him: "Mr. Buffet! "Just a glimpse of events that may be passed most people who are less fortunate. But another thought Helzber, he thinks if the guy next to him turns out to be Warren Buffet, one of the largest investor in America, then he is likely to offer a pearl chain. Helzberg then immediately greeted him in the next, and really it turns out he is Warren Buffett. Introductions ensued and Helzberg previously did not know Warren Buffet, managed to offer the business directly to Buffet, face to face. A year later, Buffett agreed to buy the network's Helzberg jewelry store. Really lucky.

2. Using intuition to make decisions

The lucky person was more relying on intuition than logic. Important decisions made by the fortunate turns largely on the basis whisper "conscience" (intuition) rather than the results of the number-crunching that advanced. The figures will be helpful, but the final decision of the general "gut feeling". Which may be difficult for someone who is unlucky, was a whisper of conscience would be difficult to hear if our brain is dizzy with the endless reasoning. That's why most people are lucky to have a method to sharpen their intuition, for example through regular meditation. On a calm mental state, and a clear mind, intuition will be more accessible. And the more frequently used, our intuition will also be more sharply.

Many of my friends asked, "to listen to intuition" is how? Is there suddenly a voice is heard telling us to do something? Well, if my experience is not like that. Even if all of a sudden heard the unknown source, I might faint. Since this is subjective, there may be a real person denger sound. But if my experience, real intuition often comes in many forms, for example:

-Sign of the body. You'll often run into. "I suddenly really excited yes, want to get the fortune time", something like that. Our bodies are really giving some signals that you should maknakan. For example you are suddenly get dizzy if you want big deal, so watch it if all of a sudden feverish again.

-Cues of emotion. Suddenly you feel something else when you're seeing or doing something. It's that I have ever experienced. For example, when I was in college, I suddenly felt like excited every time through the office of a particular company. Several years later, I was working in the office.

3. Always expect good to come

The lucky person was always ge-er to life. Always prejudiced either that kindness will come to him. With such a mental attitude, they are more resistant to a test that may befall them, and be more positive in interacting with others. Try it yourself you do a simple test, ask a successful person you know, how the future business prospects. Surely they will tell of optimism and hope.

4. Changing a bad thing to be good

Lucky people are very good at facing a bad situation and turn it into good. For them, every situation there is always a bright side. In one test Prof Wiseman asked participants to imagine is going to the bank and the bank suddenly invaded by armed robbers. And participants were asked to express their reactions. The reaction of the unlucky people are generally: "Well damn bener in the midst of a robbery so". While the reaction of the lucky ones, for example, is: "Thank God I was there, I could write about my experience for the media and get money". Whatever the situation, people are fortunate to continue to profit substantially. They were quickly able to adapt to a bad situation and turn it into a fortune.

Luck School

For those who are less fortunate, Prof Wiseman even open the Luck School. Wiseman training given to such people is to create "Luck Diary", a diary of luck. Each day, participants should note the positive things that happen or fortune. They were strictly forbidden to write their misadventures. Initially it may be difficult, but once they could write a fortune, tomorrow, next day will be easier and the more luck they wrote. And when they saw a few days back Diary Lucky them, they are increasingly aware of how lucky they are. And according to the principle of "law of attraction", the more they thought about how lucky they are, then more and more lucky events that come to life.

What about your life if you include people who are lucky?

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Failure of a Playboy

In previous articles I've discussed about Success Tips to be a True Playboy yet. Today I will tell you about the experience of one of my own friends. who failed to get the woman of his dreams. ok we just consider the following:

A playboy is synonymous with a man who had a handsome face that have a high trust, has many female friends as well as her boyfriend a lot, but my own experience of a friend is indeed somewhat unique, because every time he approached the woman is always successful, but not for one woman. call it the woman with the initials AA.

AA is not generally an easy woman was approached and a little flattery, but AA is not a woman like that. she a woman who is fairly difficult to conquer, but it makes me feel a friend has a new challenge and wondered at the woman.

Beginning of the story of my friends feel like acquaintance with AA but it is very difficult to approach. Let alone to approach him, he did not know his name. 2 months is a long story short my friend does not know whereabouts he was losing the woman of his dreams, and it turns out the woman is already engaged and now married to a man of his choice. How to not be hurt of many thousands of women who approached him easily, but not for AA.

Once the destruction of the heart my friend, have not had time to approach the woman but had lost .. guess that's a little story about the experience of my friend.

Conclusion: do not ever play with women, because one day we would miss our dream woman.

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