1. Blame others
Disease that P and K, which is primitive and infantile.
Primitive. Blaming others is a primitive mindset. In the interior of Africa, if someone is sick, who thought out is: "Who is that nyantet ya?" Always the "who", not "what" the cause. The field of modern medicine is always to find out "what" is not "who". So if we think of blaming others, it's the same with a primitive attitude. Use koteka aja deh, do not have to wear a tie and jacket.
Childish. Why? The kids always never want to be blamed. If there is plates that fall, "tuh brother wrong," or, "Ma'am tuh wrong". You wrote that wear bib overalls to be so. If we are mature, intelligent and always will be looking for something to happen.
2. Blame themselves
Blamed himself that he was not able to. This is in contrast to admit mistakes. You've been there? If you say never, you're lying. "Ah, he does get, he's an expert, he has a job, he's talented, and so on, Lha, I was what?, Wow, I can not deh. She S3, LHA, my junior high school, can not deh wah. He's got a lot of time I was busy, certainly can not deh ". These diseases like cancer, a big plus, big in the mental self so that it can achieve "improper guilty feeling".
So even though the wrong partners, subordinates, superiors, or even, dare say, "Why I have to do wrong, can not afford, and so on". This disease slowly kill us. Feel inferior, we do not have the ability. We often compare the success of others with our shortcomings, so the success of others is considered fair because they have something more that we do not have.
3. Do not have a goal or goals
We are stuck with busy work, but its direction is unclear. Should we always have a job with milestone targets. Create long-term targets and short-term in writing. Illustrations like this: There is a good dog ran snob. "What the heck can not I pursue, I lose the same aja horse". Then there is a rabbit jumping, kiclik, kiclik, kiclik. His friend said, "Well there tuh rabbits, catch aja". He chased the rabbit, wesss ...., rabbit run faster, the dog insists on chasing and running mascara rabbit-ears (to not hear / care about anything), and finally not be chased away, the rabbit into the fence. The dog returned to his friend and diketawain. "Ah, you, he ran great, just can not catch a rabbit wrote. He said most taut lu". "Lha its goal to keep him still alive, survive, LHA cave hell wrote goalnya for fun". If the "GOAL" we are just for "FUN", wrote the content, so the results are only just out of breath.
4. Have a "goal", but inconsequential to achieve it
Usually experienced by people who are not "teachable". One of its goal, our focus is also wrong, way too wrong, too wrong direction. Illustrations like this: there are young men obsessed with gold, because the influence of the tradition that deify gold. This young man went to the mall and fill the bag with gold and arbitrarily ngeloyor go. Of course the police and were arrested. He replied, "Basically I want the gold, I do not want to look left-right".
5. Take a shortcut (shortcut)
Success is never passed to the shortcut. Shortcuts do not take people to real success, because it does not follow the process. If we avoid the process, do not mature, even if it dikarbit mature. So, there is no shortcut tuh. Indonesian badminton players get up at 5 am, running around Senayan, do the smash 1000 times. That's not a shortcut. Not any one inattentive, careless every day wear gloves, keep all of a sudden a champion badminton. Nothing! If you are told to put the money of 1 million, in 3 weeks to 3 million, did not make sense that? No way!. Because it is against nature.
6. Taking way too long, too relaxed
This analogy: The plane can fly for take-off, must have a minimum speed. Boeing 737 aircraft, to be able to take-off, requires a minimum speed of 300 km / h. If he was just a speed of 50 km / h, it just splurging avtur ngabis-aja, aja muter-muter. LHA, if the course you just use a straight runwaynya speed of 50 km / h, it can not take-off, even nyungsep yes. Right?
7. Ignore the small things
He wants the big ones, are excited, but not small ones dikerjain. He forgot that the structure of a large building, there must be a small component. I wish the great wrote. Ignore the small things should not aja, let alone ignore the little people.
8. Give up too soon
Do not stop working on 3-month probationary period. Not start with the one that makes people fail, but stopped in the wrong place. Started with the wrong can be fixed, but stopped in the wrong place at all bothered.
9. The shadows of the past
Wow, very poetic, I love with this one. For what? We are always full of memory right? What we do, enter our memory, at least for our consideration for our next step. Moreover, if we ever fail, do not dare to try again. It can always return to the number of disease-3. Failure as a result of the shadows of the past are not resolved properly. That's a negative shadow. Our memory is sometimes very limited us to move forward. We sometimes forget that life is to move on. "Time" was developed right?. There is no way that a clock is upside down? There's nothing right? Everything forward, live it forward. Aja ran forward, even if it should fall, would forward really. People who are successful, must have failed. That's a negative memory that hinders success.
10. Hypnotize yourself with apparent success
So-called Pseudo Success Syndrome. We are hypnotized by it. If we've succeeded with little success, and then stop, do not go anywhere else. Been satisfied with such small success. Napoleon once said, "When the most dangerous comes along with a great victory". That's when the most dangerous, because people are careless, drunken victory. Do not get stuck with a goal-the goal is small, because we will shoot a large target, a distant goal. Do not be complacent, ntar so arrogant, arrogant hold.
Disease that P and K, which is primitive and infantile.
Primitive. Blaming others is a primitive mindset. In the interior of Africa, if someone is sick, who thought out is: "Who is that nyantet ya?" Always the "who", not "what" the cause. The field of modern medicine is always to find out "what" is not "who". So if we think of blaming others, it's the same with a primitive attitude. Use koteka aja deh, do not have to wear a tie and jacket.
Childish. Why? The kids always never want to be blamed. If there is plates that fall, "tuh brother wrong," or, "Ma'am tuh wrong". You wrote that wear bib overalls to be so. If we are mature, intelligent and always will be looking for something to happen.
2. Blame themselves
Blamed himself that he was not able to. This is in contrast to admit mistakes. You've been there? If you say never, you're lying. "Ah, he does get, he's an expert, he has a job, he's talented, and so on, Lha, I was what?, Wow, I can not deh. She S3, LHA, my junior high school, can not deh wah. He's got a lot of time I was busy, certainly can not deh ". These diseases like cancer, a big plus, big in the mental self so that it can achieve "improper guilty feeling".
So even though the wrong partners, subordinates, superiors, or even, dare say, "Why I have to do wrong, can not afford, and so on". This disease slowly kill us. Feel inferior, we do not have the ability. We often compare the success of others with our shortcomings, so the success of others is considered fair because they have something more that we do not have.
3. Do not have a goal or goals
We are stuck with busy work, but its direction is unclear. Should we always have a job with milestone targets. Create long-term targets and short-term in writing. Illustrations like this: There is a good dog ran snob. "What the heck can not I pursue, I lose the same aja horse". Then there is a rabbit jumping, kiclik, kiclik, kiclik. His friend said, "Well there tuh rabbits, catch aja". He chased the rabbit, wesss ...., rabbit run faster, the dog insists on chasing and running mascara rabbit-ears (to not hear / care about anything), and finally not be chased away, the rabbit into the fence. The dog returned to his friend and diketawain. "Ah, you, he ran great, just can not catch a rabbit wrote. He said most taut lu". "Lha its goal to keep him still alive, survive, LHA cave hell wrote goalnya for fun". If the "GOAL" we are just for "FUN", wrote the content, so the results are only just out of breath.
4. Have a "goal", but inconsequential to achieve it
Usually experienced by people who are not "teachable". One of its goal, our focus is also wrong, way too wrong, too wrong direction. Illustrations like this: there are young men obsessed with gold, because the influence of the tradition that deify gold. This young man went to the mall and fill the bag with gold and arbitrarily ngeloyor go. Of course the police and were arrested. He replied, "Basically I want the gold, I do not want to look left-right".
5. Take a shortcut (shortcut)
Success is never passed to the shortcut. Shortcuts do not take people to real success, because it does not follow the process. If we avoid the process, do not mature, even if it dikarbit mature. So, there is no shortcut tuh. Indonesian badminton players get up at 5 am, running around Senayan, do the smash 1000 times. That's not a shortcut. Not any one inattentive, careless every day wear gloves, keep all of a sudden a champion badminton. Nothing! If you are told to put the money of 1 million, in 3 weeks to 3 million, did not make sense that? No way!. Because it is against nature.
6. Taking way too long, too relaxed
This analogy: The plane can fly for take-off, must have a minimum speed. Boeing 737 aircraft, to be able to take-off, requires a minimum speed of 300 km / h. If he was just a speed of 50 km / h, it just splurging avtur ngabis-aja, aja muter-muter. LHA, if the course you just use a straight runwaynya speed of 50 km / h, it can not take-off, even nyungsep yes. Right?
7. Ignore the small things
He wants the big ones, are excited, but not small ones dikerjain. He forgot that the structure of a large building, there must be a small component. I wish the great wrote. Ignore the small things should not aja, let alone ignore the little people.
8. Give up too soon
Do not stop working on 3-month probationary period. Not start with the one that makes people fail, but stopped in the wrong place. Started with the wrong can be fixed, but stopped in the wrong place at all bothered.
9. The shadows of the past
Wow, very poetic, I love with this one. For what? We are always full of memory right? What we do, enter our memory, at least for our consideration for our next step. Moreover, if we ever fail, do not dare to try again. It can always return to the number of disease-3. Failure as a result of the shadows of the past are not resolved properly. That's a negative shadow. Our memory is sometimes very limited us to move forward. We sometimes forget that life is to move on. "Time" was developed right?. There is no way that a clock is upside down? There's nothing right? Everything forward, live it forward. Aja ran forward, even if it should fall, would forward really. People who are successful, must have failed. That's a negative memory that hinders success.
10. Hypnotize yourself with apparent success
So-called Pseudo Success Syndrome. We are hypnotized by it. If we've succeeded with little success, and then stop, do not go anywhere else. Been satisfied with such small success. Napoleon once said, "When the most dangerous comes along with a great victory". That's when the most dangerous, because people are careless, drunken victory. Do not get stuck with a goal-the goal is small, because we will shoot a large target, a distant goal. Do not be complacent, ntar so arrogant, arrogant hold.
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